50+ Spicy Truth or Dare Questions for Couples (2025 List)

First, here are the rules for playing a great game that is also safe

• The most important rule is that you need to be happy for your child to be involved. Before you start, agree that either player can pass on one or two questions/dares that are too difficult for them. The most important thing is to have fun, not to feel pressured.

• No Judgement Allowed: Make a space where people feel comfortable talking openly and honestly. Whatever you find out during a "truth" session stays between you and the other person, and you don't judge each other.

• Put your phones away (mostly): Stay present and focused on each other. The only exception is if you complete a dare that requires it.

Spicy Truth Questions to Reveal It All

Flirty & Fun Truths (To Break the Ice)

• What did you think of me when you first met me?

• What's a secret you're not telling me about that you really like?

• What's the most romantic dream you've ever had about me?

• Is there a song that always reminds you of me? Which one?

• What's the cheesiest pickup line you've ever used on someone?

• What do you find most attractive that isn't related to physical attraction?

• What do you find attractive that might seem strange?

• Have you ever fancied a character from a book, TV show or film? Who?

• What's your favorite memory of us from when we first started dating?

• Tell me about the time we kissed and it really meant something.

Deep and Connecting Truths (To Build Intimacy)

• What's one thing you've been too shy to ask me?

• What are you most afraid of in our relationship?

• When did you first realise you were starting to love me?

• What do you think I could do to be a better partner?

• What's a secret you've never told anyone before?

• What part of our relationship makes you feel most secure?

• Is there something you feel is missing from our relationship?

• What is your favorite quality that I have that is not physical?

• What happened in your past that has shaped who you are today?

• If you had to describe our love in one word, what would it be and why?

Naughty & Revealing Truths (To Turn Up the Heat)

• What's your wildest, most adventurous fantasy involving me?

• What's the sexiest text message you've ever received?

• Have you ever fancied trying role-playing? If so, what?

• Have you ever thought about being intimate somewhere that you would find most daring?

• What is one thing you have always wanted to try in the bedroom but were too shy to ask?

• Tell me the nastiest thing you've thought about me this week.

• What part of my body do you like the most?

• Have you ever been in a difficult situation where you didn't know what to do?

• What things do you absolutely hate doing in the bedroom?

• What outfit that I own turns you on the most?

Spicy Dares to Challenge Your Partner

Playful & Romantic Dares

• Give your partner a two-minute foot massage.

• Remember your first kiss with your partner and try to recreate it.

• Write a love poem. Make it six lines long. Read it out loud, making it sound like you mean it.

• Sing a love song to your partner (you don't have to be a singer!).

• Let your partner blindfold you and feed you three different mystery foods from the kitchen.

• Post a cute selfie of the two of you on social media. Write the caption "My favorite person ❤️".

• Describe your partner using three words, but make sure that all three words are food-related.

• Look at your partner for one minute without laughing or looking away.

• Let your partner draw a temporary tattoo on your arm with a pen.

• For the next three rounds, swap one item of clothing with your partner.

Bold & Adventurous Dares

• Give your partner a 60-second lap dance to a song that they like.

• Send a flirty text to your partner even if they're in the same room.

• Cover your partner's eyes and kiss them in a new way.

• Walk seductively from one side of the room to the other.

• Tell your partner your secret desire quietly.

• Let your partner tickle you for 30 seconds without stopping.

• Take a spoonful of a spicy condiment (like hot sauce) and put it on your tongue without reacting.

• Try to make your partner blush using only words, and do it in under 60 seconds.

• Show off your best dance moves for one full minute without any music.

• End the game with a passionate kiss that lasts for at least 30 seconds.

Beyond the Game: Capture the Fun with Tellsomething

• Save the Best "Truths": When your partner tells you something really sweet, personal or important, don't forget it. Open TellSomething and write it down as a private "love letter" or journal entry. You can go back to it later to remember that special moment of connection.

• Make the Dares last forever: Did your partner try to sing or dance? Make a short, 15-second video and upload it to your own Tellsomething entry. It's a great way to make a collection of your funniest moments together.

• Create a Game Night Story: Put together your favorite moments into one multimedia memory. Post a photo from the night, write down the funniest quote, and add a short video clip. It's a modern scrapbook for your relationship's best adventures.