60+ Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions for Adults

Are you ready to move past the boring questions and find out some juicy secrets? "Never Have I Ever" is the perfect party game for turning a normal get-together into a night of funny, shocking and revealing stories. Whether you're with a new crush, your long-term partner, or a group of close friends, the right questions can help you get to know each other better. We've created the ultimate list of spicy 'never have I ever' questions for adults. These will make your next game night really special.

The Golden Rules for a spicy (and safe) game

The most important thing about a great game is the feeling you get from playing it. Before you start, make sure you're in the right frame of mind.

How to Play: The most common way to play is with the "10 fingers" method. Everyone holds up 10 fingers. One person reads a "Never have I ever..." statement. If you have done the action, you put one finger down. The last person with fingers still up is the winner.

The most important rule is to check the vibe and make sure everyone is happy. This is the most important rule. Before you start, you and your guests should agree on how spicy you want the food to be. A "pass" or "skip" option for one or two questions is a great way to make sure everyone feels comfortable and in control.

Rule #2: No Judgement Zone: The whole point is to share and laugh. What you see in the game should stay in the game, without anyone judging it.

The Ultimate List of Spicy Never Have I Ever Questions

Our list is organized by "spice level,” so you can ease into the fun or jump straight to the high-heat questions.

Flirty & Fun Questions (Starting Hot)

These are great for getting everyone talking and feeling relaxed.

I've never kissed more than one person in one night.

I would never kiss someone just to make someone else jealous.

I've never used a cheesy pickup line that actually worked.

I've never had a crush on a friend's partner.

I would never send a "you up?" text after midnight.

I would never pretend to be bad at something just so someone would "teach" me.

I've never been on a date in public.

I have never received a text that made me blush in public.

I would never go on a date just for a free meal.

I've always known the last name of the person I've kissed.

I would never flirt with a waiter to get better service.

I've never accidentally sent a flirty text to the wrong person.

I would never stalk a crush's ex on social media.

I've never given someone a hickey.

I would never lie about my hobbies to make myself more interesting.

I've never gone back to someone's house on the first date.

I've never had a crush on a professor or boss.

I have never been the "other person.”

I would never pretend not to see someone I knew on a dating app.

I have never ever thought about kissing someone in this room.

Revealing Relationship Questions (Turning Up the Heat)

These questions go a little deeper, looking at past relationships, how you usually act when you're dating, and thoughts you don't usually share.

I've never gotten back together with an ex.

I've always meant it when I say "I love you.”

I've never had a "friends with benefits" situation.

I've never had a crush on someone else while I was in a relationship.

I would never look through a partner's phone.

I've never had a short-term relationship after a breakup.

I have never disliked a partner's best friend.

I have always been honest about how many people I have slept with in the past.

I've never been on a blind date.

I have never broken up with someone by text.

I have never had a bad first kiss.

I have never ever thought about getting back with an ex.

I've never been in love with two people at the same time.

I would never do anything to make a partner jealous on purpose.

I have never had my heart truly broken.

I have never broken anyone else's heart.

I've never really liked a casual hookup.

I've never been in an open relationship.

I've never thought about getting married to someone I'm dating.

Extremely Spicy Questions (Maximum Heat 🔥)

Just a friendly warning: This round is not for people who get scared easily! These questions are designed to be fun and reveal surprising things about you.

I've never gone skinny-dipping.

I would never send a self-portrait of myself wearing no clothes.

I've never had a one-night stand.

I've never used a sex toy with a partner.

I have never had a sex dream about a friend.

I have never been in a situation where I was in a compromising position.

I've never slept with a colleague.

I've never tried anything in the bedroom that I saw in a movie.

I've never had a threesome.

I've never slept with someone I've met on the same day.

I've never been intimate in a car.

I have never been in the "mile high club".

I've never role-played in the bedroom.

I've never had a sexy playlist ready to go.

I've never listened to audio erotica before.

I have never been attracted to someone who is much older or younger than me.

I've never had to deal with a walk of shame.

I've never faked an orgasm.

I've never had sex somewhere that wasn't completely private.

I've never slept with someone whose name I can't remember.

After the Game: Use Tellsomething to keep secrets safe.

The best part of "Never Have I Ever" is the stories and laughter that follow the questions. Remember all the funny, shocking, or sweet moments. Tellsomething is the perfect way to make a digital record of your fun game night.

Make a "Game Night Confessional.” Use TellSomething to keep a secret journal about something surprising that happened in the game. It's a fun way to remember the night.

Make a funny photo/video diary:Did someone have a strong reaction to a spicy question? Take a photo or video, and upload it to your own private Tellsomething entry. Add a funny caption to it. It's a secret you can keep for as long as you like.

Send a flirty follow-up message: If you played with a partner, use TellSomething to write them a "love letter" inspired by one of their spicy answers. It's a great way to turn a fun game into a romantic moment.

The aim of the game is to connect with other players, have a laugh, and find out a bit more about them. Now go and share that information! We hope you enjoy this list of never have I ever questions that are spicy enough for your next get-together!