60+ Good Night Texts for Your Crush That Feel Real, Not Cringe
It's a common feeling for people in the modern dating world: you're looking at your phone, your crush's name is glowing on the screen, and the blinking cursor is waiting for you to do something. You want to say something that will make them think of you a little longer before the day ends. But what exactly should you send?
If you've ever thought about what kind of texts to send your crush at night, you're not the only one. Dr. Helen Fisher (American Psychological Association) says attraction is based on small, regular signs of warmth and attention—not big gestures. If you write a thoughtful text before bed, you can build emotional intimacy without pressure.
Below are 60+ examples of good night texts for your crush. They are grouped by tone and purpose. They are inspired by real messages and guided by what psychologists call "micro-moments of connection."
🌙 The Casual & Low-Pressure Check-in
This category is all about having a natural and friendly chat. It's perfect if you're still getting to know each other and want to show you're interested without being too obvious. Think of these as small ways to keep the connection alive—something the other person can smile at before bed.
Dear [Crush's Name], I saw that meme you sent me earlier, and it made me laugh again. Anyway, goodnight!
Dear study buddy, I am absolutely exhausted after our study session. Hope you get some rest! Good night. 😴
Dear colleague, I've finally signed out for the day. I hope your evening was more relaxing than our afternoon meeting! Night.
Dear music lover, I've just listened to the band you recommended on my way home. So good! Thanks for the idea. Sleep well.
Dear [Classmate's Name], I hope you're ready for the presentation tomorrow. We got this. Good night!
Dear coffee expert, the coffee shop you told me about was amazing. You were right. Have a good night! ☕
Dear dog lover, I saw a golden retriever on my walk that looked just like yours, and it made me smile. It's random, I know. Night!
Dear [Teammate's Name], great game today! I'm still feeling the excitement from that last play. Take it easy, and see you at practice.
Dear film fan, I've just watched the film we were talking about. I'm amazed. We need to talk about this tomorrow. Good night!
Dear [Friend's Name], Hey, it was really nice seeing you today. I hope you have a great night's sleep.
Dear foodie, I made that pasta recipe you mentioned, and it didn't burn the kitchen down. It was a great success. Night!
Dear plant lover, Thanks to your advice, my succulent is still alive. You're a plant wizard. Sleep well. 🌱
Dear adventurer, I saw a picture of a hiking trail that reminded me of the stories you told. It looked amazing. Good night.
Dear artist, I was just looking at your art page again. You're so talented. Have a good night.
Dear gamer, I hope you're having a great time playing your game tonight. Don't stay up too late!
Dear my favorite part of the group chat, the chat was crazy today. You're the funniest one here, I'll say that. Night!
Dear [Neighbor's Name], I have just gotten home. Thanks again for picking up my package earlier! You're a lifesaver.
Dear friend, I am still ringing from the show last night. It was definitely worth it. Good night.
Dear lab partner, I'm happy to say I survived another week of chemistry. We should be awarded a medal. Or at least a good night's sleep.
Dear [Crush's Name], I just wanted to say good night. I hope you have a peaceful sleep.
💡 Tip: Keep it short, specific, and friendly. It's better to show your feelings now and again than to confess everything all at once.
💫 The Playful & Flirty Hint
Are you ready to make things more charming? Flirty texts are about having fun, not putting pressure on someone. Using humor, teasing, and compliments can make someone feel attracted to you without taking things too seriously. The most important thing is the tone — it should sound natural, not rehearsed.
Dear [Nickname], I'm trying to go to sleep, but I keep thinking about how much you made me laugh today. Stop being so charming. 😉
Dear Trouble, I dare you to have a dream that's more fun than our conversation was today. Good night.
Dear sweetie, I'm wearing the smile you gave me today to bed.
Dear future trivia partner, you better be studying up on 90s pop culture. We have a title to win. Good night!
Dear colleague, If I have to sit through another boring meeting tomorrow, I hope I'm sitting next to you. Sleep well.
Dear sleepyhead, it's time to go to bed! Am I the only one who needs my beauty sleep?
Dear [Crush's Name], My bed is really comfortable, but it's missing one thing: a good morning text from you.
Dear Rockstar, You were great today. I just thought you should know before you fall asleep.
Dear goofball, you're my favorite kind of weird. Good night! 🤪
Dear clever person, I'm finding it hard to keep up with you today. It was fun, though. Night!
Dear [Pet Name], I'm officially asking for tomorrow to come sooner so I can see you again.
Dear handsome/beautiful, I'm not a photographer, but I can totally picture us together. Okay, that was a bit silly. Good night!
Dear my favorite notification, I hope this makes you smile. Good night. 😊
Dear sweetheart, Are you always that charming, or was I just lucky today?
Dear star, if you were a star, you'd be the brightest one. OK, I'll stop. Have a good night. ✨
Dear my brain's guest star, you're popping up again in my thoughts. You should start paying rent.
Dear [Crush's Name], you've been on my mind a lot today. I'm not complaining.
Dear my next favorite song, I can't stop thinking about you. Good night.
Dear [Zodiac Sign], my horoscope said I would meet a nice [Their Zodiac Sign] today. I guess I was right. Night!
Dear distraction, you're my favorite way to avoid getting work done. Sleep well!
Flirting gets the brain's reward system going, which makes you feel excited and eager for more (Fisher, 2016, Frontiers in Psychology). Translation: If you send playful messages, you and the person you send them to will both feel happy and think clearly.
❤️ The Bold & Confident Move
These are for when you already know you like someone. They are confident and honest, and studies show that people who are like this are more attractive and trustworthy (Aron et al., 1997, Journal of Personality and Social Psychology).
Dear [Crush's Name], I'm being honest when I say that I wish I was ending my day with you instead of just my phone.
Sweetie, I'll be thinking of you before I go to sleep tonight. Just letting you know.
Dear future date, I'm just putting it out there into the universe. Good night. 😉
Dear [Nickname], I'm looking forward to seeing you tomorrow. That's all there is to it. Good night.
Dear dream face, sleep well. I'll see you in my dreams.
Dear handsome, I can't stop thinking about your smile today.
Dear beautiful, If you get a text from me in your dreams, it's because I'm thinking of you.
Dear [Crush's Name], I had a good day, but it would have been better if it ended with you.
Dear Trouble, you're making it really hard to go to sleep alone tonight.
Dear potential, I'm just saying my bed has room for two.
Dear Amazing, I really enjoy talking to you. OK, good night before I get cheesy.
Dear [Pet Name], if I told you I had a little crush on you, what would you say?
Dear [name], I just wanted to send you a good night text to think about.
Dear [Crush's Name], I had a really great time with you today. It was really great. Sleep well.
Dear love, I'm going to bed, but I'd much rather be staying up and talking to you.
Dear My Wish, If I could make one wish come true right now, it would be to be with you. Good night.
Dear my next kiss, I hope your dreams are as sweet as you are.
Dearest, I hope you have a good night. I am writing to the only person I want to text this late.
Dear future, you're in all my best-case scenarios. Good night.
Dear [Crush's Name], Let's stop texting and do this in person soon. Good night.
💡 Pro tip: Confidence isn't about chasing validation. It's about showing real interest in someone, as relationship therapist Esther Perel explains. He says that curiosity and confidence make people want more.
🔍 Reading the Signs and Taking the Next Step
Sending a message is only half the story. What happens next is important. As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Perpetua Neo Notes says that a good response is one where both people are talking to each other and both are doing the same.
Here's how to read between the lines:
- They reply quickly and are interested in what they're reading.
- They reply slowly but with care, showing they value your time and privacy.
- If you only reply in short sentences, it might be because the timing wasn't right. That's OK.
If you and your partner feel close, you can make it even better by having more personal goodnight conversations.
- Check out some sexy good night texts for him. — for when you just know you're right for each other.
- Or try sending texts to someone you're dating who lives far away. To stay close to each other, even if they are far apart.
✍️ Share Your Story, Inspire Someone Else
Do you feel like you're staring at your screen, your heartbeat getting faster, and wondering if you should press "send"? Someone else is there right now. Maybe your story could help them.
Have you ever sent a casual message that turned into something real?
Did a small text message change the course of your relationship?
Share your story on Tellsomething. Write a message to tell others what happened so they can learn from your experience.
Sometimes, the smallest message can be the start of something special.
🧠 References:
- Luchies, L. B., et al. (2010). Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology, 29(9), 1041–1068.
- Goleman, D. (1995). Emotional Intelligence: Why It Can Matter More Than IQ.
- Psychology Today: The Art of Apology.
- Harvard Business Review: What Makes a Leader.
- Zhou, Y., et al. (2020). Frontiers in Psychology, 11:1614.